Free bachelorette ballot · no app · no signup
Let the squad vote on the bachelorette. Sealed, so there's no drama.
You're the maid of honor, not the group's unpaid travel agent. Put the destination, the dates, and the budget to a sealed vote: everyone answers honestly, nobody sees the tally until the deadline, and the reveal decides it. The whole squad votes from one link in their browser.
The form arrives pre-filled. Swap in your own options in 10 seconds.
Why every bachelorette stalls in the group chat
Eight people, three time zones, one bride, and a chat thread where "I'm easy, whatever works!" means five different things. Open polls make it worse: the first two votes anchor everyone else, the one friend with the strong opinion goes on a campaign, and the quiet bridesmaid who genuinely can't afford the Tulum option just... says nothing. Six weeks later there is still no Airbnb booked and the maid of honor is quietly losing her mind.
A sealed ballot fixes the incentives. Votes stay hidden until the deadline, so "whatever works" is not an option and nobody has to disagree with the maid of honor in public. Honest answers in, one reveal out, decision made.
The 3-ballot bachelorette playbook
Three sealed votes, in this order, and the hard part of planning is done. Each link opens the free ballot tool with the question already filled in.
Ballot 1 · 48h deadline
The budget cap
Run money first, before anyone falls in love with a villa nobody can afford. Sealed voting matters most here: no one wants to be the person who picks the cheap option in public.
Start the budget ballotBallot 2 · 1 week deadline
The weekend
Offer two or three candidate weekends and let the deadline force the answer. Whoever misses the vote misses the vote; the trip stops waiting for the slowest replier.
Start the dates ballotBallot 3 · 72h deadline
The destination
Now the fun one, shaped by the budget everyone already agreed to. Beach house, city weekend, wine country: sealed votes in, one winner out, book it.
Start the destination ballotThen run the whole weekend in one place
Once the big three are decided, the Limbo app carries the rest of the bachelorette: propose the dinner, the boat, the last-night plan, and let the squad vote on each; split the Airbnb and the group dinners with settle-up so nobody chases Venmo for a month; and it all works offline at the beach. Your first trip is free, and the bridesmaids who never download apps can keep voting from the browser link. Planning a different kind of group decision? There's a general group trip vote tool too.
Bachelorette voting, answered
Do the bridesmaids need to download anything to vote?
No. You share one link and everyone votes in their browser, on any phone. That includes the cousin who never downloads apps and the friend who is three time zones away. No account, no install, free.
Why sealed votes instead of a group-chat poll?
Because in an open poll everyone can see the maid of honor voted for the beach house, and suddenly nobody wants to be the one who disagrees. Sealed ballots hide the votes until the deadline, so people answer honestly, then the reveal settles it in one moment instead of a week of debate.
What should the squad vote on?
The three decisions that stall every bachelorette: the destination, the weekend, and the per-person budget cap. Run them as three quick ballots. Ten minutes of voting replaces about two hundred group-chat messages.
What if some people don't vote?
The deadline decides anyway. Every ballot has a countdown, and when it hits zero the votes are tallied and the most-picked option wins. Nobody can stall the whole trip by going quiet.
Can the bride vote too?
Your call. Send her the link if she gets a say, or keep the ballot to the planning crew if it's a surprise. Whoever has the link can vote, and nobody else.